So you came here so I’ll tell you the reason you’re still single.. 😂 How can I do that!? Heck! I don’t even know why I am still single myself! Or did you think I’ll tell you about how you’re not doing one thing or the other right? (Lol, we’ll prolly talk about that later) But you see, sometimes I’ve almost concluded that this ‘long singlehood life’ of a thing is destined for some people. It’s like it has been prophesied many years ago before they even came into existence and there is absolutely nothing they can do about it!😂 Lol, they know themselves, those girls who have become strong holds in the single hood kingdom, Queens and Deaconesses (Do you notice how I keep writing ‘they’, I refuse to be counted in the number😂)
but who am I deceiving right!?
Full stop😀
So the prophecy about their single life is something like this:
In the sixth day of the Hesphecus month, in the year the Nation, Israel was delivered from slavery in the hands of the Babylonians.
Behold, a star arose in the dark sky. It stood out amongst others, Oh! it twinkled like a subtle harmless firefly, yet it shone as bright as the sun in all its glory.
The Babylonian king, Jemahkolongeshadiah (Don’t be distracted. Focus! We’re still on the story, that’s how ancient names usually sound😁) Now this Babylonian King, (whose name I cannot type again😁) asked for all the wise men in the land of Babylon to invoke their different gods for the interpretation of this special star.
The king was greatly troubled at the sight of the star and he promised a reward to whomever of the wise men could give a correct interpretation. Many of the wise men were greatly thrilled at the thought of a reward from the king, so they connived and decided to deceive the king.
They reported that the star meant that the king would have a peaceful and unforgettable reign marked with wealth and glorious abundance but the king, who was a man of wisdom was not satisfied with their report for he had a strong inclination that the star had a bad omen.
So he summomed for another wise man, the one they call ‘the Aged one’ to come give his own interpretation of the star. It was he who said the truth about the star.
He performed some rituals and spat out suddenly, in disgust. He shook his head and performed the ritual again. Then he looked up and said, “My king, this is a bad sign” The king leaned forward, eager to hear what the Aged one had to say.
He spat out again and looked around, “My king, I request that everyone in this room be asked to leave, this issue is a grave one”
The king ordered all to leave the room. The Aged one looked straight ahead as if lost in a trance,
“In the 21st century, more than six thousand years to come; in the one thousandth, one hundredth and ninety ninth year to be precise. At that time, there will be birds like machines flying in the sky, things will be much more advanced than it is now. In fact, fire will live in tiny boxes and will be able to light up whole rooms and palaces” The King was amazed.
The Aged wise man then shouted suddenly, “Now“, his eyes were still straight ahead, fixed on nothing in particular, “even at that time, love will exist as we have now, but…” The king was scared and expectant, ‘but what? Oh wise one. You can tell me what it is”
The Aged one shook his head, “my mouth cannot say this”
The king was running out of patience, “Aged one, speak now”, he roared
“Behold, a girl will be born“, the Aged one stopped again.
The king was scared, “She’ll destroy the world?”, he asked. “Tell me, will she destroy the world? “
The Aged one shook his head, “much worse, much worse, my King… You see, love and marriages will still be in existence at that time but you see, no matter how hard anyone tries, she will be single. The gods have spoken!”
“and what’s her name Oh Aged one?”
“and the girl’s name shall be”
*drums roll*
* Sound Effect* (Nolly wood film sound Effect)
“Her name shall be”
“PAULA”
😂😂😂
Now to be serious, I have seen many single girls worry about how and why they are still single, now I’m not saying its long been prophecied but I do know that what ever period you’re in, single or in a relationship, you’re there because it is God’s purpose and will.
Sometimes, I see how single girls talk about other girls who are in relationships, you’ll hear them say:
‘God is preparing me, let other girls be cuddling. When mine happens, it will be more glorious‘
Lol, I doubt it.
You see, it isn’t anyone’s fault you’re still single, you’re single because God wills it to be so and she’s in a relationship because God wills it to be so. No one’s hindering another.
Don’t be like:
God’s work doesn’t stop when you get into a relationship. In fact, being in a relationship is a good ground for the Lord.
There, you’ll see how flawed you are and how incapable of loving the way God wants us to and how much you need him because the human love, no matter how romantic and sweet can’t fill that thing inside of us called our soul.
Now to the single girls, do not be anxious. I know there are days you’ll definitely be. Oh, days when the loneliness will hit you and you’ll want to break and you’ll be wondering if there is one particular reason the gods are against you.. Lol. You’ll feel like
Other Girls be cuddling and going out on dates but you be setting your eyes on Jesus and Jesus himself is tired of you setting your eyes on him, he be like “girl, just leave me alone, go get yourself a cat or something😂
Now it begs the question, Is it only single girls who get lonely and depressed?
No!
Girls in relationships also feel lonely.
How does God want us to deal with our feelings of loneliness ?
You see, sometimes and indeed many times, loneliness will get you under and you’ll feel depressed and no matter how much any motivational speaker screams, Humph!
You’re depressed and that’s it. 😁
but soon you’ll realize that you actually can rise up and do something with your lonely feelings. I know about how people get bored and lonely and then resort to staying hours on the phone, trying to ‘chat the feeling and time away’ but
Hey! Do not waste your boredom! Do not waste that lonely feeling! God uses every feeling, of loneliness, boredom, love to draw us closer to himself cos he wants us to find our joy in him only and not in a person.
– It is in your dark and lonely times, you get to see a depth of you you never knew existed, depression could take you real low and God wants to meet us particularly in our lowest moments. The scriptures searches the deepest parts of your heart and in times like this, you could find joy by yourself, with God. He could teach you how to occupy yourself and your time so you won’t be everywhere and nowhere, online and on whatsapp, wanting someone to help you fix your boredom.
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, he continues to sharpen your character for his glory.
Straight from the heart ♥ 